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We Cannot Afford to be Silent Any Longer!

Shhhh…. Don’t tell anyone this but Postpartum Depression is fake!

It’s all a ruse by Big Pharma to get you to spend thousands, er, no, millions, on their products.

And that pesky MOTHER’S Act is at the very heart of the ruse.

The above is what the opposition of the MOTHER’S Act would have you believe about Postpartum Mood Disorders and The MOTHER’S Act.

If this were true, I highly doubt Hippocrates would have first written about Postpartum Depression thousands of years ago. (You know, WAY before Big Pharma even existed)

If this were true, then Big Pharma would have ensured my first OB wrote a prescription instead of turning me away and laughing me out of his office when I presented four years ago with rather significant symptoms at three months postpartum. Did I mention I was not “fed” any psychotropic medication or “propoganda”? I knew that thoughts of hurting my child and myself were NOT part of the normal postpartum experience and sought help to keep both of us safe!

Keep in mind that the MOTHER’S Act has been fighting to be passed for eight years now – more than enough time for Big Pharma to have properly funded a ton of education for lots of doctors and civilians. But wait – why do we have accounts of PPD experiences that go much much further back than eight years? What about Milk Fever? What about the UK’s law from 1922 relating to Postpartum Psychosis and infanticide? Wow. Big Pharma really has been at it for much longer then, huh?

And I suppose Charlote Perkins Gilman, author of The Yellow Wallpaper was paid off by Big Pharma to write her story protesting the very treatment of women struggling with Mood Disorders back in the 1800’s too.

If this were true, then Big Pharma “infected” me (twice) with Postpartum Depression just to get me to spend a ton of money on psychiatric medication.

If this were true, I would have been screened and treated with much more scrutiny during my second and third pregnancies because you know, the risk goes up after one episode. (But alas, I was not) Woohoo! More money for Big Pharma, right?

Oh yeah, that seems completely believable, doesn’t it?

Go, read the bill, and decide for yourself.

The Melanie Blocker Stokes MOTHER’S Act (S 324) does NOT endorse medicating pregnant or postpartum women. It does not even endorse screening of new mothers. The MSB MOTHER’S Act instead provides for a study of screening efficacy, increased education and awareness on both sides – patients and physicians.

Knowledge is power, it is prevention. With each subsequent pregnancy I became more and more educated about my options. I made decisions in consultation with my physicians. As a Coordinator with Postpartum Support International, I encourage women who contact me to explore all their options. I do not encourage medicating specifically but will support whatever decision a mother makes. To medicate or not is a decision to be made between a woman and her doctor. The MSB MOTHER’S Act respects this. PSI respects this. I respect this.

We need to support mothers on their journeys. Twenty percent of new mothers (new or experienced) will experience a mood disorder. And up to 50% of their partners will experience depression as well. The last thing we need to do is to close the door on them. I have had this happen to me with no alternative treatment or options available. It is a very scary place to be indeed and is why I do what I do. I refuse to allow any mothers suffer in silence and fear as I did, holding on for dear life to the precious hope that one day she’ll wake up and be normal again.

Please do not let this happen to any other mothers. Don’t let them suffer in silence. Raise your voice. Let it be heard. Let mothers across the country know they are not alone, they are not to blame, and they will be well, no matter what road they choose towards help. Give them options instead of taking them away. Help us educate physicians. Help us educate American communities and remove the stigma and fear that all too often befalls a new mother struggling with intrusive thoughts, sleepless nights, and sobbing days. Let her know you are there for her. It is time to reach out with open arms and bring back the village that once raised Mothers and Children. The Desperate Village is running out of time and hope. Don’t let your voice be the one that causes their downfall. Speak up now.

(You can Speak up now by visiting Susan Dowd Stone’s website to email her with your name, state, any credentials and affiliated organizations. Your name will then be added to a list of supporters for The MSB MOTHER’S Act which will be delivered to all Senators on Mother’s Day. Won’t you do this one little thing for the Mother in your life?)

Seeking PMD Creative Writing

Have a piece about a character struggling with a PMD? Write a poem to get you through your darkest hours? Know someone who does? Are they (or you) ready to share it?

Submit it here by emailing it to ppdacceptance@gmail.com with Literature Submission in the subject line.

I want to start an Creative Writer Corner here at UB given that my background is in English Literature. Looking forward to reading the submissions!

A new project – just for DADS!

Ok, ok, so in the interest of full disclosure, I am co-partner in this project. Go check it out already!

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New Support Site for Postpartum Dads Launches just in time for the Holidays

The Postpartum Dads Project plans to focus on collecting stories from Dads who have experienced depression themselves or have been with a partner who has experienced a Mood disorder after the birth of a child.

December 5, 2008 – With the goal of getting new Dads to open up about the havoc Postpartum Depression can wreak, the Postpartum Dads Project launches today. The project will also focus on developing a close knit community which would provide Dads a safe haven in which to connect with other fathers with similar experiences.

The project is an outcome of a partnership between Lauren Hale and David Klinker, both Coordinators with Postpartum Support International. Ms. Hale serves as the Co-Coordinator for the state of Georgia while Mr. Klinker serves as the Father’s Coordinator. In June, Ms. Hale featured interviews with Dads and their experiences with Postpartum Depression. Mr. Klinker was one of the Dads featured and this led to further discussion regarding the lack of resources available for Dads.
The Postpartum Dads Project will also be placing emphasis on Paternal Postnatal Depression. This can occur in up to 10% of all new dads. In fact, if a father’s partner is depressed, the father has a fifty percent chance of developing depression himself.

One of the primary goals of the Postpartum Dads Project will be to create a published volume that will include submissions collected through the website. These submissions will be categorized and designed to be read in between calming a fussy baby and watching the game. The development of the website will continue and many of the stories will be found there as well as insights from professionals, tips and hints from other dads who have been in the trenches, as well as the eventual addition of a Dads only forum.

A key addition to the website in the future will be a professionals only area in which professionals will have their own forum and other tools with which to discuss this relatively new area of support.
The Postpartum Project will begin by publishing interviews with Dads and professionals in the know such as Country Music Artist Wade Bowen, Michael Lurie, David Klinker, Dr. William Courtenay and has been granted permission to reprint the interview with Dr. Shoshanna Bennett’s husband, Henry. The Project will also be featured in an upcoming segment at The FatherLife.com.

For additional information on the Postpartum Dads Project, contact info@postpartumdadsproject.org or visit the website at www.postpartumdadsproject.org.

About the Postpartum Dads Project
Lauren Hale and David Klinker are both volunteers with Postpartum Support International. Lauren is very active in Postpartum Peer Support and moderates the iVillage Postpartum Depression Board, runs a local peer support group, writes Unexpected Blessing, a blog dedicated to pregnancy after PPD, and is a stay at home mom of three children. David is the Father’s Coordinator for Postpartum Support International and also runs www.postpartumdads.org. He is strongly dedicated to supporting Fathers throughout the Postpartum Period.

Contact:

info@postpartumdadsproject.org

Lauren Hale, Co-Founder

The Postpartum Dads Project
http://www.postpartumdadsproject.org
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Meet me at 10am EST for chat!

I’m the Guest Chatter over at Pampered Pregger and Beyond today at 10am EST. Come join us!

Here’s the low-down:

Event Info
Host:
Pampered Pregger and Beyond
Type:
Network:
Global
Time and Place
Date:
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Time:
10:00am – 11:00am
Location:
http://pamperedpregger.ning.com/chat
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Baby’s here and yet I’m not doing cartwheels – instead I feel worthless, sad, weepy, and irritable and there’s no sign of these feelings going away! Learn how to recognize symptoms of Postpartum Mood Disorders and what to do when it’s more than the blues! We’ll go over how to prepare yourself, your family, and how to talk with your doctor if things aren’t getting better if your symptoms have gone on for more than a couple of weeks. Remember, you are not alone, you are not to blame, and you will be well!

Guest Chatter: Lauren Hale, founder of PACE & PSI Coordinator for Georgia

Sharing the Journey with Tiffani Lawton

Just last week a friend of mine invited me to be part of an absolutely amazing community, Pampered Pregger and Beyond. Tiffani Lawton, formerly of Buoy for Perinatal Blues, is the amazing woman behind this site which combines a little bit of everything you would ever need to know about well, Pregnancy and Beyond. In fact, I’m scheduled to do a guest chat on Postpartum Mood Disorders there next week! I just had to share this with you and send some major kudos out to Tiffani who works very hard at motherhood and supporting other women. Thank you, Tiffani, from the bottom of my heart. Your work is amazing!

Tell us a little bit about yourself – who IS Tiffani Lawton?

Personally, I am a mother to four boys, 17, 14, 3 and 2 and a wife to a very supportive husband, my best friend. Professionally, I am an 11 year veteran registered nurse with a background as a mental health nurse and recent practice as an antepartum & postpartum doula, lactation educator and placenta encapsulation specialist. I am the owner of Pampered Pregger & Beyond. http://pamperedpregger.ning.com

Share a bit of your professional experience as related to pregnancy and postpartum. What have you learned on your journey that defines your approach to women during these times in their lives?
No two women are exactly alike. Their needs are so highly individual. My approach to women during their pregnancy and postpartum period is ALL about them. How are they feeling? What are their needs? I have my Mary Poppins bag of resources available to meet their needs and support their feelings. I don’t use a cookie cutter approach.

You ran a blog, Buoy for Perinatal Blues. What led you to start the blog?

The lack of postpartum support in my area, southern NJ, which I soon realized extended far beyond my own borders. I wanted to help increase awareness about Perinatal mood disorders and offer a place for women and families to find educational support.

As a mom, you know that we stay very busy. What do you do to take care of yourself when you have the time to relax?

Read and write. I wish that I could say something very romantic, but I love to curl up in my bed, pull the covers up and read. I also love to write, so I really enjoy working on one of my blogs or books that are in the works.

What do you find the most challenging in motherhood?

For me, the challenge is juggling two entirely different worlds, teens and tots. They both have such very unique needs. The least? My love for them and the pride I feel in their littlest of accomplishments, the ones that define who they are.

Name at least three things that made you smile today.

1) my three year old trying to mimic his 14 year old brother’s past theatrical performance on video.

2) hearing the tots little angelic voices in the background while on the phone with my husband who was home with the tots and getting dinner started!

3) watching my 14 year old play Cruella Deville on the piano while my 2 year old sat next to him, pretending he was playing too.

You are a certified antepartum and postpartum doula. Would you share a bit about what a doula is and how a doula can help a woman and her family during pregnancy and the postpartum period?

An antepartum doula generally assists pregnant women who are classified as high risk, who may or may not be on bedrest, or with medical conditions necessitating the need for help. This assistance includes education and physical support such as bed rest assistance, sibling care, errands, meal preparation, home care, and emotional support.

A postpartum doula assists the new mother, baby, and the family within the first few weeks after the birth of the baby. I like to keep the offer of support open through their first 12 weeks and beyond if needed. Postpartum doulas are knowledgeable about newborn care and breastfeeding. The postpartum doula may offer the following: breastfeeding tips, baby care and advice, household help, sibling care, meal preparation and run errands.

Cesarean Support and Awareness is also very important to you. Would you share some of your experience with cesarean birth as well as any resources for moms and families to turn to for information and support?

I personally have had 4 cesareans because I had pre-eclampsia with all four pregnancies. I did labor for 52 hours with my first, which stalled and resulted in an emergency. I was not permitted to VBAC with my second and I was emotionally devastated. The third cesarean was at 37 weeks because my kidneys could not bear the load and the 4th was scheduled due to complications. The fourth nearly killed me. The incision became infected and then took 8 months to completely heal after multiple rounds of heavy duty IV antibiotics on a daily basis. Because of the delayed healing and decreased mobility, I developed a pulmonary embolism which is a blood clot in the lung. I am lucky they caught it in time or my children would have all been left with out a mother.

Moms and families seeking support can look for a local ICAN Chapter in their area. ICAN, International Cesarean Awareness Network, is a great resource and I learned so much from them. I started a chapter in my area, but have since changed it to Cesarean Society within Pampered Pregger & Beyond. Cesarean Society offers an online educational and supportive resource for mothers on their journey through recovery. The support group features monthly chats with guest chatters, ongoing forum discussions, online book club, and coming in 2009 will feature telesupport groups and talk radio.

Overall, Awareness, Support, and Education for women during the pregnancy and postpartum period has improved drastically over the past few years. In your opinion, what obstacles do we still face and what can the average mom do to improve her own experience during the these times in her life?

I agree, awareness, support and education has greatly improved, all of which empower women to be their own advocates. Knowledge is power. However, obstacles do remain. Midwifery needs to come to the forefront again and be the first professional that prenatal women seek. All pregnant women should watch The Business of Being Born. An insightful article, A Birthing Option To Be Mirrored, further explains how obstacles can be removed.

The Mother’s Act needs to get passed into law which will further increase awareness and professional education for doctors and nurses. If the professionals respond at all, all too often the OB or the GP will give out an anti-depressant to a new mother complaining of depression and it may not be the appropriate medication for her. They are not experts in mental health. I would love to see a mental health nurse practitioner be connected to every OB, so that when a mother expresses her concerns, the OB can refer that mother to the right person. The right person will help the new mother explore a variety of therapeutic options, not just medicinal.

Last but not least, you have an opportunity to give an expectant mother (new or experienced) one piece of advice. What would you say?

Postpartum planning! A postpartum plan is so very important and the plan will change with each new baby as the circumstances have changed. Informative article entitled, Are you Prepared ? is a great resource.