So does Stigmata but that’s a whole ‘nother topic.
Thing is, band-aids would do a better job of healing stigmata, as horrific as it is, than it they would to heal the misconceptions about mental illness.
For centuries, people have developed their own fears and prejudices in regards to those of us who struggle with mental illness.
We can’t function.
We should be locked away.
We are to be feared.
We are to be hidden.
We are to be whispered about.
We are not to be talked about at all.
We are to hide our illness the best we can.
We are an embarrassment to our families.
We can’t have friends.
We can’t have children.
We can make our illness go away.
We choose to be crazy, nuts, insane, loco.
We use mental illness as an excuse to not contribute to society.
We are lazy.
Stigma is a heavy blanket which covers all of us who struggle with mental illness. Not only do we fight against whatever illness it is we are diagnosed with, but we fight the blanket too. It’s a thick and heavy blanket society has flung over us to hide us as we try to function within their world. It’s hiding us. Just as a band-aid hides a wound.
Band-aids don’t always heal wounds. Sometimes a wound needs to breathe, to gulp in fresh air, scab over, and continue to grow new skin in order to heal. Fresh air is the equivalent of open conversation of mental illness not laced with stigma. Until we, as a society, are able to sit down at a table together to discuss mental illness without resorting to judging or stigmatizing those who struggle with it, we will never heal.
Stigma is not something which can be pulled off quickly like a band-aid either.
It requires a slow removal because stigma is a wound which has been festering for eons. Lots of tender care is required in order to aid in the wound reaching fresh air. Several layers need to be removed, slowly and carefully. Bold conversations, intense honesty, patience, compassion, and a dedicated desire to convey the truth about mental health are requirements.
It is possible to peel back the layers and allow the wounds to heal. Start with one person and you might be surprised where your ripple of truth ends up. But if you never start that conversation? Stigma will continue to thrive. Don’t hesitate to do something because you believe just one voice doesn’t make a difference. Because your voice, no matter how small, matters.